By: Martianne Stanger
Have you heard that name? Undoubtedly, if you haven’t, you just may this month. For this month is National Autism Awareness Month and Temple, who is a successful businesswoman, educator and speaker, also happens to be one of the most famous folks with Autism in today’s world.
She has authored a number of books, had a movie made about her life and continues to inspire scores upon scores of people touched by knowing (or being) someone on the Autism scale. I am one of those people.
For years now, my family has been on a journey to discover what makes my neurologically atypical son who he is and how we can most effectively help him to become the best individual he can be. Our journey has found us at a number of physicians’, specialists’ and therapists’ offices, trying to discern correct diagnoses or deal with specific challenges. It has also found me scouring the library and Internet for information and support, while becoming more and more connected to folks in “autism circles.” Although my son has yet to be formally diagnosed as an Aspie (Asperger’s Sydrome), his profile is heading us in that direction and the strategies we use to help him meet (and overcome!) the sensory and behavioral challenges he faces are the same ones many families with Aspie’s use.
After reading Temple’s most recent book, Different…Not Less, which I reviewed recently at our family blog, Training Happy Hearts, and spending a date night cuddled with my husband in bed watching the movie Temple Grandin, I was enormously excited to attend a local Autism and Asperger’s Conference last month where Temple, her mom, and several others presented.
What a full day of “mm hmm,” “ah ha” and “oh, we might…” moments that day was for me. Not only did I take pages of notes during each of the engaging and informative presentations, but I also got to speak for a few moments with all, but one of the day’s presenters, asking some personal questions. Wow! I left enriched. (And, would highly recommend upcoming Autism and Asperger’s Conferences to others. See here for locations, registration, etc. and, if you like, use the code HAPPY for a 15% discount off any conference or book purchase at the site.)
Now, this month, I’m eager to attend the Nourishing Hope mini-conference that is coming to the Boston area (or Mansfield, to be more specific). At it, I look forward to learning more about why food affects children’s minds, bodies, and behavior and what I can do (or continue to do!) to help my son.
Since January, our entire family has been on a gluten/casein/dye/preservative/additive-free diet and have, thus, witnessed marked improvement in my son. We have also found that although the diet seems limiting, it is actually enriching. My husband has lost weight and felt vitalized. My daughter has been making some better eating choices. My youngest son has not been showing any of the aversion to fruits and vegetables that his siblings began rebelling with at meal times at his age. And, I have been enjoying trying out recipes from Kim Wilson’s e-cookbook Good and Easy Eats, which I talked about here, as well as from the print cookbook by the same author, Every-Day Gluten-Free, which I reviewed at our family blog. So far, the challenges of choosing a different diet have been more than compensated for by the pay off. So, I cannot wait to go to the Nourishing Hope conference to learn about what I might add to or wean from our current menus in order to feed my family in an even more effective way.
Truly, I feel blessed to live in this area where there are so many conferences, resources, physicians, specialists, parent groups, etc. that specialize in Autism, Asperger’s, ADHD, Sensory Processing Disorder and other neurological variances. As the news splashes headlines that include Centers for Disease Control statistics which read, “1 in 88 children in the United States” and “1 in 49 children in New Jersey” have been identified as having an autism spectrum disorder (ASD), I thank my lucky stars that I am not parenting my special child back when Temple Grandin’s mom began her family’s journey with ASD.
At that time, few knew about Autism and related disorders. In fact, Temple’s mother was advised to relegate Temple to an asylum. Can you imagine?
What I can envision is an ongoing positive outlook at what is and what can be.
Please, whether you have a child affected by ASD or not, consider picking up a book, watching a video or attending a conference about the topic this month. If statistics are any indication, your life will undoubtedly be touched by someone on the spectrum at some point in the future. Fortified with awareness, that moment can be a memorable one.
If you need recommendations about books, resources, etc., please do not hesitate to request them in a comment. While I am not expert, I am a parent on a journey – perhaps even a mission – that has a bookcase and a computer cache full of titles authored by esteemed authorities and might be able to guide you to one that would best speak to you.